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Post by lostthenfound on Feb 28, 2008 14:17:46 GMT -5
Hello June it has been a while,
Although we have been strangers for several years now you must know that my (our) heart(s) is truly saddened by what has happened to Michael and the toll that his condition has taken and continues to have on you and the children.
As a parent myself, I would be devastated to think that a child of mine would have to grow up not really knowing the true man behind the shell of a father that stands before them. As I have always stated, my one special wish is to grow old with my spouse and to see my children grow up and to have families of their own and thus I can leave the world complete.
It is strange and sad how such an event can truly change the dynamics of a family and close friends. For the many years that this was developing in the background and finding out much later was a bit of a surprise to us and that this had been going on for so long.
The courage and strength, both mental and physical that you pocess is to be truly admired and your continued possitive attitude is the substance that will keep your family together through these troubled times.
You should know.
Our hearts are not cold, our hearts hurt too.
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Post by june on Feb 29, 2008 1:58:43 GMT -5
Thanks for the kind words but I am struggling to identify you. Can you please tell me who you are? Thanks, June
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Post by workingmom on Feb 29, 2008 2:06:38 GMT -5
In the event LostThenFound wants to remain anonymous to the public, they can PM (Private Message) you directly. --- Private Messaging: what is it? « Thread Started on Jan 9, 2008, 5:30pm » Private Messaging (PM) is a way to communicate to other Members by sending them a message through this Forum without using your email. Everytime you visit this site, you can find your message status on the home page, top area. Look for the text, "Hey, USERNAME, you have Y messages, X are new." Click on the "Y messages" to go the PM page. You will see a listing of Members. To PM someone: - click on the PM icon found under "Extras", it's the left icon. The right icon is to email someone. - compose your message - click "Send Personal Message" You can organize your Incoming/Outgoing messages like a regular email utility. Suggestion: set your preferences to show a PopUp window for the site if you have a new message waiting for you. You can even have an email sent to let you know a message is waiting for you. To do this: - Go to the PM page (see above directions) - Click on the "Preferences" icon found on the blue navigation bar, far right. - Under "Notification", change the DropDown menus to your preference. - Click "Save Preferences"
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Post by lostthenfound on Mar 31, 2008 22:59:29 GMT -5
Wow, I am deeply moved that so many of you have viewed my comments on this sad and devastating life experience that has affected the Shin family.
Words of support are sometimes all we have left when the physical and emotional sides of a relationship are no longer present.
Yet however much time shall pass the bond of love, family and friendship built over many years can sometimes fade away. But in times like these we must look deep within ourselves to overcome all that has happened and all that is yet to happen and look at today and each day as if the future which at times looks gloomy can still have a happy path as we live our lives through the hearts and souls of our children, family and friends!
Be strong, be sad at times, be happy but most of all believe!
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Post by Crazy Kirin Nights on Apr 21, 2008 23:32:10 GMT -5
I read your story here and it seems kind of sad. I know what it feels like to lose something special or someone that was close to my heart too. I hope that whatever it is you lost that you will be able to find it once again before it is too late.
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Post by lostthenfound on May 1, 2008 8:42:38 GMT -5
Thanks you for those wonderful words of encouragement Krazy Kirin Nights.
LTF
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Post by lostthenfound on Sept 4, 2008 13:51:03 GMT -5
It has been a few years and in many ways it seems like a life time. What people must thinking right now is surely not justified and to all those who think they have the answers surely have not been asking the right questions and in all fairness will never know the truth behind our mental and emotional pain.
We truly feel sad for what has transpired over these past few years and if it is true what they say "time can heel all wounds" then let that time be soon, for what can heels us may also destroy what we once had and shared.
LTF
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